friends

A lot of people think of me differently the first time they see me. They tend to think that i am a strongly opinionated person, with aesthetic tastes. But after my first handshake with them, they come to know how friendly i can be to them. You'll never know in which oyster you find a pearl. But im not trying to say that im so good n all. Just that, im amicable enough to become a friend. Its odd to know how easy it is to get a friend, but much difficult when it comes to breaking the friendship. I look at a person in the eyes and talk, to try and know how much they feel comfortable with me. If they aren't comfortable in the way im presently talking, i tend to change myself in order to comply with them - a simple adapting strategy. But there are certain instances, when i badly feel to get away from a person who is trying to befriend me. That makes me wonder how many such people would i have troubled by my way of befriending. On seeing a person totally happy and rejoicing with the environment, we feel the emptiness within us lacking the happiness. That is when we exhibit hatred on others. They become enemies to us. A small grudge develops within us over the person waiting for an oppurtunity to flaunt bout the happiness we could posses when compared to them. Who knows? Probably they are being happy in front of us to satisfy the grudge they had on us previously when we were happy. But, ultimately does it matter who flaunts more? All that matters is, are we enjoying atmost our life.